The most familiar line in the faith — that God is love — turns out to be the hardest to pin down, so we sit with the difference between defining love and discerning it.
In this episode, Jacob and Sam hit record with no script and follow the feedback that came in after the pilot wherever it leads: a family member’s pushback on whether the real problem is naming or labeling, and a grandmother’s read that the true substance of the quilt — the thing that actually keeps you warm — is love.
Along the way: Genesis 2 and a God who waits to see what the human will call things, Meg tasting salmon for the first time, why Jesus at all if love is the point, and a naturalist’s question — “How do I say your name?” — that turns out to be a way of meeting God.
Less defining, more discerning. Pull up a chair.
Chapters
- 00:00Intro
- 00:37Cold open
- 06:12Welcome back — no script
- 07:57Naming, or labeling?
- 09:33What Adam was really doing
- 16:31Tasting something for the first time
- 21:01The tree of knowing
- 23:07Love as the substance of the quilt
- 25:28Where the metaphor breaks
- 32:19Why Jesus
- 35:11Discern, don’t define
- 41:46Truthing in love
- 46:49“How do I say your name?”
- 57:28Love without guarantees
Scripture
- 1 John 4:8 “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.”
- Genesis 2:19 “Now the Lord God had formed out of the ground all the wild animals and all the birds in the sky. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name.”
- 1 Corinthians 13:4 “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.”
- Ephesians 4:15 “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.”
Scripture quotations taken from The Holy Bible, New International Version® (NIV®). Copyright ©1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.
Mentioned
- Make Your Home in This Luminous Dark: Mysticism, Art, and the Path of Unknowing
- The Cloud of Unknowing
- Barry Lopez
- Tim Mackie (BibleProject)
- Jiddu Krishnamurti
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